You are doing the work, friend. That work can be enlightening and freeing, and it can also be heavy and hard. Perhaps you're moving through a situation that causes you pain, but this is one of those life moments where you meet your strength, get to know the power you've wielded all along, and discover your unique style of perseverance and progress.
But I'm not here to prattle on about how strong and amazing you are (which you ARE!), but to shed light on the areas of your head and heart that need love and attention right now.
There is no correct timeline for healing. Growth and learning cannot be rushed; they have their own natural pace of unfurling and developing. Whatever it is you are sorting out right now, whatever it is you are learning, integrating, releasing, and accepting, is doing so at the exact pace it is meant to. These processes can feel isolating, because they are ours and ours alone, as they call upon deep parts of ourselves to step forward, to change, to lead.
We can feel frustrated and lonely during these moments of great change and growth. So, you need to remember that you are not alone, even if nobody can understand exactly what you're going through because it is inside of you, and your work to do. You are loved, and there are folks wanting to support you. You are here to support you, too. You always have been, and you always will be.